One-tap block
Block from the chat header, the profile, or the match screen. Blocks are silent - the other member never sees a rejection message or a reason.
Trust center
Safety and privacy on a private dating site
Incognito dating only works if the privacy tools are boring and obvious. This page explains - in plain language - how anonymous mode, screenshot protection, human moderation, and reporting actually behave on Find your love today, so you know exactly what you are signing up for.
Last reviewed April 2026. Policies updated with each product release.
Anonymity promise
Our anonymity promise
Anonymous dating sites only earn trust by telling you what they do with your data before you hand it over. The core privacy risks in online dating - profile exposure, real-name policies, screenshots, location leaks, and retention after deletion - are the exact things we designed around. A display handle is enough to sign up. Your real name is never required, never shown to other members, and never sold.
Plain-language promise
What anonymous mode actually does
- Photos stay blurred until you unlock them for a specific member.
- Your profile is hidden from search for anyone you have not matched with.
- Your real name is optional at every step, including payment for premium features.
- Precise location is never shared - only a rough region you control.
- Deleting your account removes your profile, messages, and photos within 30 days.
Protections
Screenshot and data protections
Screenshots are one of the most common fears on private dating apps - and for good reason. We cannot make any app 100% screenshot-proof on every device, but we can make it harder, slower, and traceable. Here is what ships on every account by default:
- Screenshot deterrence on supported iOS and Android builds, with a notification to the other member when a capture is detected.
- Blurred photos that require a mutual unlock. Unlocks are logged so you can revoke access at any time.
- Minimal data collection at sign-up. We do not ask for your real name, birthday beyond age verification, or phone number unless you opt in to SMS recovery.
- Encrypted messaging in transit and at rest. Chat logs are accessible to moderators only when a report is filed.
- No ad-network tracking. We do not sell profile data to third-party advertisers. Analytics are aggregated and anonymized.
- Clear deletion path. One tap in settings starts a 30-day purge of profile, photos, messages, and backups.
Verification & moderation
How verification and moderation work
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Human review at sign-up
Every new profile passes through a trained moderator before it can message. Bot patterns and duplicate photos are flagged within minutes, which is why early catfishing rates on this platform stay below 2% versus an industry average near 36%.
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Optional photo verification
A private selfie pose is matched against your profile photos. Verified badges appear on your card without ever showing the selfie publicly, and the image is deleted within seven days.
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24/7 moderation queue
Reports are triaged by human moderators, not algorithms. Urgent safety reports are reviewed within one hour on average, and account actions are documented so you see what happened after you report.
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Community-backed norms
Unsolicited photos, size-based ridicule outside consented SPH contexts, and harassment are removed on sight. Size-positive language is the baseline, not an aspiration.
Blocking & reporting
Blocking and reporting tools
Three tools you will actually use, sitting one tap away inside every chat.
Structured report
Choose a category (harassment, catfishing, unsolicited content, spam, safety concern). Attach context. Moderators take it from there and follow up by email.
Mute & pause
Mute a conversation without blocking, or pause your whole account for a weekend. Members see you as offline - no deletion, no re-setup when you return.
Safety numbers
Our safety numbers
<2%
catfishing reports per 1,000 profiles
Internal moderation log, Q1 2026
58 min
average response to urgent safety reports
Moderation SLA, Q1 2026
100%
of new profiles pass human review
Verification policy, 2026
30 days
to full data purge after deletion
Privacy policy, 2026
Practical habits
Tips for safe dating on any platform
These habits work across every dating app, not just ours. Borrow the ones that fit your comfort level and ignore the rest - privacy is a personal setting, not a score to max out.
- Use a separate identity per app. A dedicated display handle and photo set prevents cross-platform tracking and reverse-image searches.
- Keep personal contact info off your profile. Share a masked email, proxy phone number, or in-app voice call before handing over your real details.
- Reveal real info only after trust is built. A few weeks of consistent conversation is a reasonable checkpoint for most members.
- Mute instead of ghosting when you are overwhelmed. You do not owe anyone a reply on a timer, and silent mute is healthier than disappearing.
- Meet in public for the first date. Tell a friend the plan, share your live location, and keep the first meet short enough to leave easily.
- Trust the tools. Block, report, and pause early rather than trying to manage bad vibes politely. The moderator queue exists for exactly this.
Read the fine print
Keep reading
Where to find the full legal details
This page is a plain-language summary. For the full policy text - data retention windows, legal bases for processing, cookie categories, and your rights as a user - see our Terms and Privacy Policy, linked from the contact page. Have a specific question about your account data or a moderation decision? Reach out through the contact channel and we will respond within two business days. You can also review our FAQ for answers to the most common privacy questions.